New friends?

Getting into new friendship could be very fascinating and fun most of the time.

However it is not always an easy kick.

Making new friend in younger days is so natural.

And probably easier if you are single too.

As you adults, getting married, growing a family, it is getting even harder.

Adding to that struggle being a stay at home mom is just an icing to the whole struggles.

We rarely meet people.

We rarely have things that are more interesting than your days kind of stories.

We dont have an extra digits in our wallet to just kill our time and have fun.

And can you digest this, I wish we dont have to talk bout  our kids all the time.

What about me as an individual?

Why is it the only social activity that people keep on suggesting is kid playdates?

What about my play time?

Me being me , apparently having more guy friends in most pages of my friendship books make the book goes blank at this stage of life.

I am thankful enough that my husband are so cool with this fact,but those guys friends 'partners wont all be all cool about it.

That is the deal on the existing books,new books? Barely have it, as it may seems to certain eyes that it could be lead to another whole misjudgement and jealousy story.

Told you ,single is easier in this chapter of life.

Then people jump in saying your husband is  your friend kind of thing.

Yes, true.

So, is it we should stop at having one friend now, because we are a married lady?

What a melancholy truth.