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Sometime truth hurts. To say things nobody dare to say out loud require more than "coming from a good place" claptrap. Giving it out to someone you considered important was not really a plus point in this context.The fear of hurting them, driving them away, get told off or at least spark a heated argument is basically the roots of why people avoid doing so. Obviously, the real struggle is the tick in  deciding betweeen to give or not to give advice to them. Some says not telling them our concerns or disagreement is a sign of support. Should you let them be who they are as long as they believe they are happy in the moment?  But, if you being the close ones, not able to express the hard truth, who can? Do advice better received from a strangers ?  I prefer getting them from my close circle. At least they might know our situation a little more than merely observing. Right?

There is this one question. Some people love asking it to other people. A little many more of them  asked themselves in their mind at least once.   Have you start wondering what is the big question ? Here it is:  What is the advise(s) you wish to tell your younger self? As time adding numbers to your age, there gonna be more deep quoted phrase you wish you tell the younger you. Back to me. Being 33  this years,if I ever somehow travel through time and meet the 25 years old me,( why 25? Because life was pretty fun at that number  ) this would be my exact words; " Babe, there are two crucial things you have to always remember to do them young : 1. Eye cream. 2. Sunblock/sunscreen  And babe, reading and exercising (working out) can be fun."   Why? Because little thing matters.

I can't emphasize enough how much choice of word matters. If speaking kindly to plants help them grow, imagine what speaking kindly to human can do. The way you says things really give up your character. The way you utter your words signficantly shows your intention. No matter how prim and proper you may look with your designer's clothes and all, the moment hideous words come out from your mouth ,I am gonna scratch out the briliantly elegant in my impression list. Yes. This does not only apply to only spoken words. Same goes to written words.   Regardless how influenced you are in the current social status online, once a vulgar word deliberatedly said in your text ,status or comments, you are just another ill-educated fellow in this crucially in-need-for-love society. I never agree to the stigma who concur that  there are exception to this when it comes to conversation with close friends or family. Well, you are not gonna get that exception with me. If you are able to politely

I have always know I love lippies💋. I am mostly on lipcream or lipmatte these days. Good kind of lippies in my dictionary probably those that ticks list as below: ✔ Easy to apply ✔ Visibly great shades/colors( pigmented) ✔ Lightweight on the lips ✔ Smudge proof ✔ Stays but not too difficult in removing them later on. ✔ ♡  those without any obvious fragrance  ✔  Kind to my wallet( or probably to my banker 😉) And apparently I love taking photos of my colored lips too.👄  #LyshLovesLippies is totally my thing.

Getting into new friendship could be very fascinating and fun most of the time. However it is not always an easy kick. Making new friend in younger days is so natural. And probably easier if you are single too. As you adults, getting married, growing a family, it is getting even harder. Adding to that struggle being a stay at home mom is just an icing to the whole struggles. We rarely meet people. We rarely have things that are more interesting than your days kind of stories. We dont have an extra digits in our wallet to just kill our time and have fun. And can you digest this, I wish we dont have to talk bout  our kids all the time. What about me as an individual? Why is it the only social activity that people keep on suggesting is kid playdates? What about my play time? Me being me , apparently having more guy friends in most pages of my friendship books make the book goes blank at this stage of life. I am thankful enough that my husband